Was having this discussion the other night with a Domme ive sessioned with for a while and i think i caught her off guard.

Over my 20 years in bdsm ive always heard that submissive men are weak and lack confidence. I get that soemtimes people want humiliation. Sometimes i do too.

But ive always thought submission is an act of strength. To be able to confidently express that you want to kneel before a Domme and give up control takes a ton of confidence. To be able to put your needs and desires aside to please and serve takes strength not weakness.

When i walk out of a session i feel like i can take on the world. That to me doesn't seem weak?

What does everyone else think is submission an act of weakness or strength or can it be both?