When I was a wee bit tot in the scene, no older than 22, a Mistress Krysta at the Nutcracker Suite told me that I had the best ass she had ever seen. I was on a table bent over, back arched, wrist and ankles tied to the table. She called in some other Dommes who also complimented me on "my little apple bottom with a wasp thin waist." It wasn't said in a humiliating "cheeky" way. It was a genuine compliment.

Until then, I always thought I had a very unappealing butt and legs. It was the first time someone thought otherwise and it was while I was in a very vulnerable exposed position. It just made me feel so amazing and did wonders for my confidence with women. BDSM has been therapy for me in some ways.

My wife just grabbed my butt this morning and told me how much she likes it and it just took me back to this moment which is permanently imprinted in my psyche.