More often now Mistresses are requiring references in order to book. I don't mind this and can provide references but if I am trying to get something set up within a couple of days this can be a problem. Sometimes the Mistresses I give as references don't get back to the one asking and that jams me up with scheduling and kind of makes me look bad. Is there a way to make this go more smoothly? Do some Mistresses just not like providing a reference?