From my point of view I like it both ways, but probably prefer bondage. I did learn a lesson the hard way to restrain (even a well known subs) during heavy pain scenes. I had one regular reach out and grab my hand and my thumb has never been the same. He didn't even realize he had done it. Mental bongage is good but only up to a certain point.
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