right . . . I was not saying it is bad or good. When I first began to read about it, I had no idea what might happen in domme visit in terms of the presence or absence of cndms. At Maxfisch, in one thread, there is one fellow who wrote on the topic that it seemed unthinkable to him that condoms not be used; I forget his exact words.

It is what it is and I have no intent to flame war with anyone on these topics. I have been mildly experiencing domme visits about 2 to 4 times a year for a few years and anything that I know about anything other than a spanking, caning or golden shower (one time, so far) is the result of what I read here or at maxfisch or on the blog or website of a mistress.

So, nearly everybody is more knowledgeable and more experienced than I am in these topics . . . Up to a few weeks ago, I didn't even know if GS was usually done "through" panties or without!

I just try to learn and think about things.

Thanks for the link idea re Sensual Latine!