I have religious and psychological reasons for believing it is good to be spanked, caned or whipped . . . so . . . no . . . not been ashamed . . . and my doctors and my friends at church or some of them know that I get caned or whipped or am perhaps victimized in other ways!

Nope not ashamed and the people who would think badly of me for that are fools . . .

If and when a guy writes an email about how unique or difficult he will be, I might toy with him a bit and write back. "Ha, ha."

Or tell him that telling you that does not work and he will submit or he can look elsewhere!

Many of the best or most fun dommes write it plainly on the website, "You will submit," etc.

Or, if he is serious and still wants to see you, consider gagging him for a lot of the session!