I often will rule out a session based on a clip or full video. I've been told by she-who-I-shouldn't-discuss that videos are always planned and aren't intended to represent what goes on in an actual session. She seems to be successful in both the video and sessioning business, so maybe her session customers either realize this or want to do what they see in videos.

We're all different, especially when it comes to our brand of kinkiness.