This is an interesting topic. Some men like this attitude. They make their own decision on whether or not, to see a dominatrix who feels this way. Of course, they also make the decision on whether or, not to go back. It is usually just living out a fantasy for a planned amount of time.

I always looked at sessions/playtime as a joint journey. The energy in the room drove the session. The fun came when both parties were riding the same wave. Limits become instinctive between genuine partners, be it professional or, personal.