Originally Posted By Poester
What I was getting at was much simpler. I don't like playing with scat much after the initial "drop". Once it gets further removed from the "donor" it's just a pile of crap, to me.


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Originally Posted By Poester
But to answer your questions I'm not naturally submissive.


Gotcha. Now I understand and as a switch who is much more naturally dominant in my interactions, I do totally understand what you mean.

The main difference in our D/s approaches is that my focus at all times is pleasing the woman I am with and gaining pleasure through that process rather than role or activities. Whereas, for you, it seems that it is the fetish/activity that is what drives you.

It is awesome that you have found someone to take pleasure in feeding (no pun intended) that need while allowing you to still be yourself and comfortable after the activity is over. As great as the Iso-toilet is for you, I agree that it is actually that comfort with you as a fetishist, rather than a sub, that probably makes it all work.

Asp