Of you who are dommes, how many, if any, of you do gs on a guy who has not asked for it?

Do you always wait to be asked for it or do you take the initiative and set it up without asking or do you partly ask and encourage it first or do you do differently with different guys?

Of the guys, what approaches have the different dommes taken with you?

If and when the domme expects the guy to drink and if he does not, do you or the domme cane him much or do something else as an alternative, or simply not treat him well in various other ways . . .