That era probably left many young men visiting dominatrixs. What you describe, I've always found hot. When I would film or, conduct spanking scenes, I liked the clicking of the high heel. Tapping my foot, arms folded across my chest, with the hair brush, paddle, ect. set out where the sub could see it. Although, I've never switched, when I see my fiancee coming from work and, take his belt off, it turns me on. The subtle aspects can make a scene hot.

One of my clients was a true spanking fetishist. He was a blast. I had to wear a tight skirt that showed panty lines. He was very specific. He'd even call me by his high school teacher's name. Some true fetishes are impossible to please...but this guy was easy going and, always had a blast.