It is easy to mistake how someone comes across on line. My late husband and, I were long time posters on MF before we met. If I had known who he was before we met I would not even spoken to him, let alone become a close friend and, end up having a family with him. Meeting someone in person is very different than online. Kevin Hayes is a good guy. We've spent a good bit of time in person together. Everyone on the ClubDom set has liked him too. This seems to be a simple miscommunication.