Originally Posted By Kevin_Hayes
I will say this, there's an argument to be made that some of these men are emotional cripples and these Fin Doms thrive and prey on them. An argument can also be made that we're all responsible for ourselves yadda, yadda as if to justify the shitty actions and thievery of some of these dubious Dommes. I'm not lumping them all into one category but there are some shitty ones out there. Then there are the men who pose as Fem Dommes online and rip people off.


This is what really gets me.
It's not just the catfish findoms who I dislike, men or women who use findomming as an opportunity to run scams, but even the "legitimate" findoms I can't exactly stand.
Maybe it's just play that I can't understand, but you'll see many of them brag about the fact that they can get guys addicted to dropping hundreds of dollars at a time on them, ignoring any of their other financial responsibilities. Brag about the fact that they can get these guys to come back even when they've "given it up" like a bad addiction. And these are the supposedly legitimate findoms and pro-dommes who tweet about their findomming.

It's also just a massive turn-off in general to see dommes begging for money every other tweet, but maybe that's just me.