Originally Posted By Domina M
[quote]We are not outting anyone. ... This isn't some socially awkward client who doesn't understand boundaries (we should warn each other about those, but not publicly shame them), this is a seriously violent criminal.


Of course, but that's wasn't my point. It was that when we discuss dangerous people publicly, we risk making them aware they are on watch. We also risk the safety of anyone who posts or comments on threads like this.

People who are violent are more likely to retaliate. They are also more likely to be psychopaths. So, if Domme Jane says, "Hey, everybody, this guy is a rapist." He may read that, feel angry, and go after Domme Jane, and possibly every other Domme who comments. And if any of those Dommes had seen that guy, they are especially at risk as he may know their location, etc.

This is why I strongly encourage private discussions.

The good thing that can come from this? (Aside from Dommes being made aware, of course) Clients will get a better idea of the reality we face every time we session with someone.