Originally Posted By palmer
I agree with this. Maybe another way to phrase it is that there are people doing findom who are informed by IRL SM principles like SSC, or RACK, and feel connected to that lineage. And then there are people who have just started doing findom, and because all their experience is over the internet, they have a different relationship (or lack of relationship) to their subs and to SM in general.


Agree completely, and I almost framed it exactly this way -- findom activities that follow femdom norms, principles, and activities (e.g., SSC or RACK) vs those that don't. And to see an example of "those that don't" -- a camgirl subforum where the girls discuss other "hustles" (and they do think of findom as a hustle; just that framing itself is telling), complete with toxic and exploitative language and strategies, contempt for clients, bragging and virtual high-fiving over what is clearly unethical actions, etc.


Edited by Swordfish (08/12/19 11:21 AM)