This is s very interesting piece that you've obviously given a great deal of thought. You start with 2 paragraphs about findom. You follow this with 3 paragraphs dealing with "pornsexuality" contrasting it with face to face sessions. However after that you want to collapse pornscualty to findom. I am not seriously into findom though I have on a few occasions done things with a little bit of a vibe similar to findom. However I have gone through phases where I wandered into pornsexuality and eschewed face to face sessions. This was BDSM related but had nothing to do with findom.