In some states this is legal...not a lot but, a few. Most states, break down into counties that are either conservative on these type activities or, not. It is really about knowing where you are and, what the local area will turn a blind eye to. For example, Columbus, Ohio is very blind eye to these things. As long as an adult service is not a public nuisance, they don't really care. 90 minutes to the south, in Cincinnati and, you could get arrested for having an immoral thought.