No argument about this. This is why I am here. At the same time there are things I can do only at MF. My recent flurry of posts was not due to an increase of my interest in BDSM but because I saw a crisis and some need for action. Before I found out about the problems at MF I have been absent for about 2 months.

There is a guy who does not post a lot but whenever he does I am very interested to read what he has to say, TheDriver. He sent me a PM during my absence and I responded when I came back, about a month ago, but he has not logged in since. I have not deleted my PMs and I am glad that he can find my response.

While reading past posts from long ago I noticed how different excited sounded from his current posts. I can talk to him about it.

My mistress has over 4000 posts there, and only about 10 of them are from the last 3 years. There are answers there to many of the discussions we had or we have not had yet.

So while the winner takes it all might work well for you, because you are mostly looking forward, which is a good thing, the past is equally important to me and I see value in having both sites working.