For good and decent adults exploring their sexuality with bdsm, it can be a fantastic journey. In my experience, Mistress Cheyenne, many, or most, of the pros offering bdsm are
like YOU, exploring together with the clients, creating special opportunities for adventure.

A minority care mostly or only about the money and a tiny fraction (in my experience) have an anti-male and bigoted bias
making it most important to "get out of there" safely.