There is a big BIG difference between setting up a session and choosing to weave a basket instead of doing a session that day and, weaving a basket, getting a call to session out of the blue, and turning it down if you wish to spend more time crafting.

Sorry you have had such bad luck in trying to set up sessions. Again, I was speaking for myself, not others. Instead of telling you what you should think or do, I spoke about how I conduct my 'mistress business'.

If you want to get into details, slaves must contact me multiple times before we meet, especially the first time. Even my loyal slaves that see me regularly, they have to contact me the night before and in the morning to confirm. I want a thousand confirmations, maybe that will work for you?