I am often asked if I will participate in financial domination or blackmail scenarios. The short answer is “no”. I will occasionally play around with it as a theme on a NiteFlirt call or make you pay for unauthorized orgasms, but that’s about the extent of it. I have no interest in any sort of long-term FinDom relationship.

Why? I don’t find it particularly fun. I don’t enjoy playing the bratty girl that expects you to open your wallet just because I tell you. Call Me old fashioned but I think there should be some value for any sort of financial exchange and I can’t really wrap My head around a sub wanting that kind of domination. In addition, I would never blackmail a client in reality, so pretending that I would just seems forced. I’ve read extensively about financial domination, I’ve experimented with it and I just don’t find that it is for Me.

My lack of interest in it does not invalidate it as a real fetish or a real form of domination. I get that there are submissives that see turning over their finances to a dominant woman to be the ultimate surrender of their private space and a powerful aphrodisiac. I mean no disrespect to FinDommes that are good at their trade (although I think there are precious few of them that are genuinely good). As long as the Domme acts responsibly and the sub is consenting, I have no issues with it. But there is the rub. Since FinDom is practiced primarily online, a new breed of Dominatrix has sprung up and problems are starting to arise. More than one case has actually turned criminal when a FinDomme released private information about a client to the public because he refused to continue the roleplay.

If you seek financial domination, choose your FinDom Mistress wisely. Negotiate the real world implications and have a written record of that negotiation. The more exposed you really are, the more real and powerful it may feel, but the results, if things go wrong, could be catastrophic to your real life.

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