Originally Posted By The Thomas
Don't keep us in suspense, Man! Who won?


Sort of hard to say... I definitely was able to resist while on the swing (and believe me, it was ridiculously tough) but we got finished with that and she had me lay on the ground to give me a golden shower while she had me stroke myself (which I knew was no longer part of the resistance game so I was no longer fighting it). Of course the first stream was strong and hot and literally hit me right at the base of my balls, which made me scream "mercy". To which she replied very incredulously "THAT is what did it?!?"

Originally Posted By The Thomas
What I have done on quite a few occasions is what I described in my response to Dannysub's thread about consensual non-consent. Using X to make me do Y. Sometimes when I play that game I make it clear at the beginning I cannot escape doing Y by using a safeword. However all of those scenes X was painful. Very painful. The whole idea is to have the pain break your will.


I do think that is the same thing because I am talking about the attitude and not the act. I also totally understand what you mean about trying to resist and the rush that must come when she does break your will like that. However, I won't play that way because I always turn over my will at the beginning and my focus is always on pleasing the Domme by taking as much as I can without resisting. Anything else just feels wrong at some basic level to me (I know that this is just my own thing because what you do and your reactions in those situations is much more normal in the sub world).

Originally Posted By The Thomas
So in addition to ego I had an extra incentive not to cum (there were some other penalties as well). Nevertheless she sometimes succeeded in forcing me (not always!). That made her very happy.


Although not in the context of a session, I do think that is also the same thing that I am talking about where battling is the purpose. I have also told the story here about how one of my Dommes bet one of her escort friends that she couldn't make me cum within an hour and that I would have to double the cost of the session if I did (as well as losing her $250 in session fees because the escort would have gotten all of the money, but more importantly she would have lost face in front of a friend, so I am sure the penalties would have gone WAY beyond just monetary or just a little CP). I "won" that time as well and basically got to enjoy giving this woman multiple orgasms (female orgam is my biggest fetish) as well as totally pleasing my Domme (which is a close second) so the outcome was better than any orgasm could be.

As I said, I am undefeated in this and I am willing to challenge all Dommes who wish to take me on!!! (I can be all blustery and shit because none of them are gonna give me free play just to try to take the title belt to my ass after I lose).
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