Originally Posted By painslut
I started doing sessions again and they are at best average. Rates have gone way up but expereince way down. I have done a couple 90 minute sessions. I paid for phone consultation each time and each said they knew exactly what I was seeking and that it would be no problem. I thought going to a private Domme and paying the higher fee instead of a commercial dungeon tipping was optional? And by going to a private Domme one could experience more private intense play that you could not expereience at commercial dungeon. I did not know having a Domme wear leather was extra up charge. Or when she tells you she got her nails done espicially for me and would I like to pay for them getting done. But the biggest turn off was the arlarm on their phone going off when the session was over.

Now I know why so many Domme travel to cities these days. The repeat customer is not coming back.

It is really a shame.


I think what has happened is that our culture has shifted by the addition of the internet. It makes it easy to put up your shingle and call yourself a Domme. This means the "professional" pool is diluted with a lot of people who really have no idea what they're doing or what professionalism means. I think many of them think it just means you get paid. That's it: getting paid to do something = you are a professional.

But there are some of us who do understand this and provide above average sessions. You just have to thoroughly research who interests you.