|
#20442 - 04/05/24 04:40 PM
Re: Blacklist?
[Re: Mistress UV]
|
Occasional
Registered: 11/04/15
Posts: 36
|
Personally I think it's a great idea, however, it only works if every domme in here is impartial and keeps anything shared here confidential.
I say this because years ago I had a long time sub (almost 4 years) become absolutely problematic (stalking, putting fake ads about me, leaving fake reviews up to mess with my tours, etc., simply because I cancelled a session over a health emergency and had offered a rain check date. He had domme friends on maxfisch, he told one lady about how I was "a bitch" and she rolled with it because in her eyes I was a bitch simply because he hadn't mistreated her. Meanwhile this man would personally sit across the street from my studio for hours telling me what I wore that day. He was good in her eyes while creating havoc for me. Anything I would've shared in a domme forum about him would've inevitably made it back to him, creating even more danger for me in what was already a truly horrible situation where my safety was absolutely at risk.
I share that simply to make the point that blacklists work if everyone has the integrity to keep things here, here.
That means having an open mind and realizing that someone that has sessioned with one person or is internet friends with a sub might not fully be aware of how that same sub is behaving with others. After all, a blacklist's point is safety and that requires the safety to share in confidentiality and also to know that it won't get back to said sub and have the chance to create what can potentially become a dangerous situation for the domme that shares about her experience being wronged.
|
Top
|
|
|
Moderator: Cheyenne, DarkMuse, DivineRulerOroroSnow, Doc Domina, Domina M, Domina Perpetua, Dominatrix Rin, Domina_Felicity_Hart, DommeLynx, Dr. Snow, ElenaDeLuca, EllaStrictland, EmpressFrida, Eva Lordes, Goddess Samantha, GoddessAvecti, GoddessCapri, Julia Steele, Lady Bellatrix, Lady Velvet Steel, Madam Jess, MayaMidnight, Michelle Lacy, Miss Adah Vonn, Miss Grey, Miss Nyxon, Mistress An Li, Mistress Aurianna, Mistress Berlin NYC, Mistress Kiva Krimson, Mistress Lisa, Mistress Mickey, Mistress Ruby Riots, Mistress Tissa, Mistress Trinity, Mistress Troy, Mistress UV, Mistress Zoe Red, MistressIsadora, MistressMaraM, MistressNight, Mistressnumber1, Mistrix Violeta, MsKittyLaReaux, MsRoseWoods, Ms_Gia_Peccato, NYC Mistress Devi, Queen Naomi, Serafina Imperia, shanghaimistress, Sorceressmorgana, Stern Miss Lea, TIERRA DOLL, TroyOrleans, Victoria_Cayne, VinylQueen
|
199 registered (Boucheron, Soapy, T-bone, buffalo, Kevin, shanghaimistress, Gagged2, Domina M, langerr, milagros317, isuffr4her, Mistress Troy, nysubjack, Oliver Cromwell, The Thomas, tosser, Poester, Chuck123, KYboy, Dannysub, DommeLynx, Mistress Mickey, sb35801, ElenaDeLuca, denali, DominaAdmin, Bruce88, gilcarnovsky, sellinggr, Loucypher17, mass, porkster, Awillingstudent, Domina Perpetua, EvedLeNashim, Dr. Snow, jlars555, Ramukc, Chi61, need to serve, TempestLuxx, broom, Stern Miss Lea, CelesteTaylor, marstoy, Stephen M, Mistress Berlin NYC, Arnth, Queen Naomi, Lady Bellatrix, Cutter14, njfootcuck, Madam Jess, Cheyenne, JM2020, Crytears, artiemus1, mballings, Curiouser, GoddessCapri, Aztoilet, Mistress UV, slavebvd, mercury88, Ms Regan Black, junglebeast, Mistress Lisa, Marcus, Toiletmouth4u, Browniepoints95, KinkyBoston, Bert65, WestAugust, MistressIsadora, midlet, bootboy, Mistress Ruby Riots, palmer, Slv4u, acquiesced, Paul Thompson, So long, sfotk1, Lady Velvet Steel, kefxb24, Chamberpot, bdsmlover, Stone23, kneelingwilliam, guillermopelotas, TheDriver, SeekingAdventure, justaclient, 2Balls1Cock, forHer, Sohodude, Eastbabyhuey, Violetwand, Mistress Aurianna, Mistress Tissa, xxcamslavexx, billclay1960, Jiminhales, mtsub69, Ms_Gia_Peccato, TadShy, dikembe50, slave47, Schrouppy, sheba322000, Jm1010, Mick681, furfan, teliot, MayaMidnight, Kinleung, Smiley, Photographs by Varga, Thomas, Moth to a Flame, Komodo, DougCooper, Sublime2199, Old_Timer_FL, MistressMaraM, johnny joestar, Ragman, logmuncher, smithworth, Bound ashtray Man, txlonghorn1223, Condor, ztrade, Stevesvriny dick, lxfwxstj, Gs8483, softy13, RomeoVoid, SDEG2000, Itsme, Steel, Sissybuttslave, evalstoevres, billw, Smokey1, Subsouth304, MsRoseWoods, MistressAlicenyc, marksok, dlb63941, Nirolog, flobie, Paraphilo, mbilbo, truesubtipp, NaughtyNickB, Doc Domina, slvmaximus, Ayou8870, tylerr, Gil, cruciverb, Jimmysam, domtsub, gfred1, Mistress Trinity, bane, SlaveGunner, Madonna, Skweezme, 117, Stylesub75, llf, frank, Sborn, Rustaniels, Mistress Kiva Krimson, HouseofServitude, AaronGrant, worm, Olivia Amore, international, lecate22, esclava, BigChasteT, Mistress Ayn, schrads, EllaStrictland, Phljam, LAN, taztom, Dr. Pleasure, PASubMale, Lexman88, Mhuston4, chastitysub1970, Atlanta_r, Lucinda Archer, Trojan4life),
15429
Guests and
96
Spiders online. |
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
1
|
2
|
3
|
4
|
5
|
6
|
7
|
8
|
9
|
10
|
11
|
12
|
13
|
14
|
15
|
16
|
17
|
18
|
19
|
20
|
21
|
22
|
23
|
24
|
25
|
26
|
27
|
28
|
29
|
30
|
|
|
|
|
|
|