We actually agree on something, Soapy. My thoughts exactly. It does, however, seem to bring up a need for a spill over section of some sort. If you remember, the personal forum on MF came about when a former slave of an iconic Mistress was having a melt down. The original MF opened up a personal section and moved such posts to it. No one wants to see personal drama in the lobby. No one wants to be dragged into it. It's kind of like most of us have a catch all drawer in our kitchen for things we don't know what to do with...there should be a place for the drama to go to keep the main areas free of it. It may even replace locking threads when they get heated.