Originally Posted By furfan
Don't you know Dommes are supposed to be mind readers?


To be honest, I sometimes am. But I also am trying to control the scene. And so my primary focus in on doing that and not the ways the sub may be trying to steer me elsewhere.

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I want the Domme completely in control and to make all the decisions. I want to be totally helpless and at her mercy......... but, she needs to do all the things that turn me on and none of the ones that don't. The intensity levels need to be not too harsh, not to soft but just right. The bondage needs to be tough and challenging but not too challenging. The time spent on each activity needs to be just right.

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All joking aside, I suspect Dommes feel that way about clients sometimes?


Not often, actually. I think the better you are at the pre-production the less likely this is to happen. But, still, there are people who aren't being honest with themselves, so they communicate what they *think* they want and then realize it's not what they really want and a few times here and there this has been put in my lap.