To echo nysubjack, what exactly are you looking for? I lived with my last girlfriend for 3 years. She was 100% submissive. But, that didn't mean we didn't have times of just hanging out and caring about each other. If I were paying for a dominant session and it turned into a break time for her to simply have someone to talk to while getting her feet rubbed, I'd not return either. Clarification would help in order to give you good advise.