When playing sub, it must be to someone who has a level of integrity that commands my respect. With mutual interests, everything else falls into place after that. When I'm playing top, which is most of the time, I want the cute butt, sweet face, puppy dog willingness and nice tits is icing on the cake. I am a complete pig when it comes to what I want in a bottom. But, to get on my knees and fully submit to another woman, it is all about what is between the ears.