Originally Posted By ztrade
Do any of you folks do without the pre session consult or do all of you have it in most or all cases?


Everyone must speak with me before I invite them into my dungeon.

Originally Posted By ztrade
in the pre-session consult, have any of you ever used some nudity or affection to obtain consent for some things or ideas or to negotiation limits in a favorable, or do you consider that to be unethical or is that up to each individual domme as how affection or partial nudity relates to limits, interests and safewords?


ztrade, you seem to have a problem confusing fantasy and reality.

You never want anyone to coerce you into doing things that you are not interested or comfortable doing. Period. This falls under the definition of sexual assault and also "trafficking".

Originally Posted By ztrade
suppose a domme was kissing your neck or giving a bit of tease and denial while you were also deciding on limits or safewords! Probably some would say that is not ethical but some would say it is normal!


Fantasy. No PROFESSIONAL Dominant is going to do this crap.