Originally Posted By Mistress Kiva Krimson
Are Amateur/lifestyle Mistresses "safe" to play with? Do the large & in charge Ladies of the "munch" have the necessary training, and experience to Domme your world?


Interesting to bring this up on a forum for and by pros. It's kind of like asking a forum for professional bakers how everyone felt about asking that lady at church to do your wedding cake instead. wink

Anyway, I think it's like a Venn diagram of two, somewhat overlapping circles.

Yes, they may both do kink. Yes, they may both be women. Yes, they may both top -- maybe even Dominate -- you.

An amateur can absolutely be safe to play with, just as a "professional" may not be. (As we always say, "Due your due diligence!")

But the whole idea of a professional is that certain expectations are reliably met, including skill, options, safety, boundaries like confidentiality and "no strings". Some people need the assurance of those things.


Edited by Mistress Tissa (02/25/23 04:19 AM)