When I first started sessioning around 13 years ago, alot of the sessions would start out with me being cuffed to the cross, either facing it or away from it. I loved how the domme would be right against me, running her fingers on me, squeezing my cock or balls, and just seeing her up close in a corset or having her spit in my mouth from there.

It just seems like this was the norm and just about every session has gotten away from this now. I miss that, but I don't want to request it just to make sure it happens as I like some surprise to things.

Was this something that dommes felt was just too overdone and mainstream and decided to stop doing?