I just learned with this term means and i feel like its a good description of how I approach femdom.

In my younger days when hormones were running wild i could schedule a session with anyone and get wild on a moments notice.

As ive aged ive found it tougher To take that approach. I now need that emotional connection and that takes time to build. It makes it tough to do a pro session at a moment’s notice. But i have had success with a few people building a long term transactional relationship with a real emotional connection. I have also found it in my personal life on occassion

The benefits of this is that Once i have that emotional connection i can go deeper in a session than ever before. It just takes time to build up.

I guess what im saying is i cant have meaningless sex anymore but the meaningful sex or femdom is really good.

Does anyone else have this same feeling?