Originally Posted By furfan


I agree. Although I have always thought that given that they are often in a position of having physical control over a sub, tops have an even greater responsibility.


Absolutely. I started as a sub and began switching a few years later. Now I prefer the top side. It is something to be taken seriously. It can be more work than pleasure. The bottom should be able to let go. The release for the bottom is usually the entire point of the exchange. I like to sub here and there. But I only do it with someone that I know well and trust.