I too am both a spanker and spankee. When I am giving it is mostly OTK using only my hand. I do not like to bruise. Red is so delightful in a shapely female derriere.

When I am on the receiving end it usually involves a variety of instruments that includes paddles and canes. This invariably results in bruises. I look forward to having a very sore butt the next day (and more than one day if I'm lucky).