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It isn't pain for the sake of it with me either. There needs to be a good connection with the top.


I am much the same way. The pain isn't about scratching in itch for me. Its about wanting a connection with a top who i have formed an emotional bond with. If we both enjoy it i have a lot of fun. The need for an emotional connection actually makes it tough to do pro domme sessions for me and if i do it takes several sessions before i look for a lot of pain.

I also enjoy the pain the day after an intense session kind of like being sore after a hard workout. But I need extended aftercare in these situations. i need my Domme to stay with me for a few days while i process that pain