I think you describe it very well. The difference between Findom and findom type activities. I’d have no interest in Findom but there’s an appeal to being coerced into tithing money to a Domme who you regularly see. I will never forget a conversation with a Domme I was seeing telling me how she was going to find a slave to clean her house and also take his money but not all of it. She was a powerful personality and confident there were men out there who would do this. I get hard just typing this remembering her confidence and matter of fact tone.