I will start by again mentioning Leopold von Sacher-Masoch's novella Venus in Furs which was inspired by a RL F/m relationship he had. He too liked his mistress to wear fur.

Meanwhile Victorian England produced loads of porn with flagellation one of its favorite themes. Mostly this was F/m Some of it can still be found

In the 70's and early 80's a typical porn shop had a rack of porn novels. Nearly half of these were illustrated with very explicit drawings A wide variety of sexual excess was covered. This included BDSM I would say 70% had only M/f and F/f. Of the rest some had a mix of F/m and F/f while others were a three way blend of M/f, F/m and F/f. The quality of writing varied. Some of it was awful. The most talented author was FE Campbell but his stuff was always M/f mixed with F/f

In the late 90's two women who were bisexual switches strongly recommended Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty trilogy (a 4th book has been added rather recently) Rice covers all bases in the series and that includes M/m as well as F/m, F/f and M/f. I rather liked the first book, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty but in the middle of the second book Beauty's Punishment Rice loses interest in her protagonist and concentrates on a M/m relationship. This is where I stopped reading.

A few years ago a disciplinarian strongly recommended John Glassco's Harriet Marwood, Governess which she described as being exquisitely well written. This is pure M/f so it might be what you are looking for. In some ways it is a homage to aforementioned Victorian erotica. Glassco also wrote The English Governess so I am confused as to how different the two novels are. I keep meaning to give at least one of them a try but have procrastinated.