Another poster mentioned the movie, The Secretary. When it came out some years back, I bought the dvd but never made time to watch it. I revisited the trailer. It looks like a fun watch. I've got to see it. (No spoiler alerts for those you have, please.) It also looks as close to an actual Ds relationship that I have seen portrayed in a movie. Here is the trailer. Have you seen any movies that touch on this subject in a way that is realistic?