I don't like to hear words like pay piggy and loser either. Some men like that but, it is has become cliche. There have been a few doms who have presented this fetish quite well. Princess Sierra comes to mind. She was hilarious and involved in the scene at an in person level. But, ladies throwing around these terms on line, I have to wonder if they even know what they are talking about. It comes across like telemarketing. Social media makes it all too easy these days. Before then, there was a financial investment to advertise. The phonies got weeded out pretty quickly.