No worries. One thing I have found in BDSM is that sometimes certain terms can mean different things to different people. CNC seems to be one of those terms.

If you Google “consensual non consent” you will get a lot of hits about kinky sex and rape play fantasy

For people into heavy D/s it seems like it’s more about heavier play with few limits and no safe word. ( very edgy by my standards )...something approaching total power exchange

I’ve always used it as a way to experience specific scenarios or activities while still adhering to the principles of RACK and maintaining limits. Things like sensory deprivation bondage for a set time or a specific punishment like XX strokes with a cane.

In any case, whether playing professionally or privately, it requires a great deal of trust and communication between the people involved.

There certainly have been times during these type of sessions that I have regretted the agreement but in the end I have always been glad of the experience. My first experience with overnight bondage came through this type of agreement. I remember being hot, uncomfortable and definitely wanting out at times but in retrospect it was an incredible experience.

If it helps in understanding I think of this as a little bit like skiing a double black diamond run or maybe skydiving. Once you start you are committed