Waxing is my first choice. For me, it provides the best results, is not painful, there is no bleeding, and is somewhat humiliating to be waxed. A Domme once requested I find a male esthetician to wax me. When I asked "Why a male?" she replied, "Because it will be more humiliating for you."

Two problems with waxing -

1. As a dude, its hard to find a place that will wax my "bating suit area". Pick up a rock and throw it and you will hit a place that will wax vaginas, but dudes and their junk? Most places turn you away. (Which I think is ripe for a sexual discrimination lawsuit if you ask me). Finding a place that will wax men was difficult, but not impossible. Check out the 'gay' neighborhoods in your city.

2. Its expensive. To get my "entire bathing suit area" waxed smooth cost me something like $175.

But the good news? There might be someone in your local kink community who is skilled at waxing and would be happy to do it.

In fact, a Domme planned to keep me locked in chastity for an extended amount of time (six months? A year? Who knows.) She was looking into giving a copy of the key to a kink-friendly esthetician. My Domme would have a key, so would the esthetician. I would not. (I'd have a sealed tamper proof emergency key only).

When it was time to get waxed, I'd simply set up an appointment with the esthetician. I'd undress at the appointment; esthetician would cuff my hands, then unlock my chastity cage. I'd be waxed, cleaned up, whatever, locked back in chastity, uncuffed. I'd be allowed to dress, I'd pay my bill and be on my way.

Sadly, things changed with this Domme and it never happened.

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Second choice is a simple beard trimmer. Any $30 Norelco trimmer from Walmart of whatever will do. Many have safety features so you don't cut yourself.

This is a cheap and easy option for hair removal.

The downside? It usually doesn't leave things baby smooth.

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An excellent choice is this stuff called Magic Shave. Its a powder that you mix with water to make a paste. Put it on the hair you want gone, wait five minutes, shower, and hair is gone. The stuff is a miracle for me (and I am fair skin with medium reddish brown hair). It gets rid of the hair and leaves the skin smooth and soft and wonderful.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magic_Shave

IT IS NOT NAIR. I don't know what it is with Nair, but that stuff sucks.

The downside to Magic Shave is that it may not work for you. Your skin, hair texture, etc might not like it. You'll have to run some tests.

Also, I found out through trial and error that five minutes is good for me. Not 6, not 7, not 4. FIVE.

The good news? I get results that are 98% as good as waxing but this stuff costs like two bucks a can.

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Finally - razors and shave cream. I've had mixed results. Too many nicks and shaving bumps.