Hi Scooby.

Everything has been impacted by covid, so keep that in mind. I'm not sure what is going on specifically at the moment. A lot of things are shut down or at limited capacity, but pre covid:

A great way to find events is to join up with your local community. Go to munches and things like that. Get to know people. Get vetted for communities and events. FetLife can be a big help here. I primarily use fetlife to find events to munches and other activities.

I've been to many events in the past, and I've had some of the best times at them.

Some are FemDomme, some are just general kink anything goes.

Generally, they tend to be "bring a date" kind of events or something where you are known and vetted beforehand.

I'm actually attending an outdoor weekend camping event in a few weeks; its out in the middle of nowhere with lots of privacy. Its general kink. There should be a pretty decent crowd. I went a few years ago as a single guy; this year I am attending with at least one play partner.