You definitely aren't being harsh i see where you are coming from.

I might be overreacting somewhat. Some of the reason for my post might be the emotional aspect of seeing so much marketing based on humiliation. I never have felt my submission is something to be humiliated over and it feels like BDSM as a whole has gotten swept up in humiliation. I totally get its a valid fetish. And one that i think many submissives enjoy.

As i think about My post i was hoping more to convey that submission doesnt have to be humiliating and being submissive is something to be proud of. Not sure i did the best job of conveying that though