Thank you for your response Mistress. I am sorry i didnt want it to come off as a compliant. I know a lot of people really enjoy humiliation as part of their bdsm play. In the right situation i do as well.

Maybe its just my perception but it feels like humiliation its so widespread it now overlaps many of the femdom kinks. It seems to be front and center in all femdom marketing. Clips, social media etc. Just because i like pegging, or chastity etc i doesn’t mean i want to be made fun of.

If i called a domme and said i was into humiliation she wouldnt automatically assume i was into strapon play

But the other way around seems to be a common assumption nowadays

You are definitely right most dominas are more than happy to offer sessions without humiliation. And i have been lucky enough to find someone who will do it with me. but it feels like i always have to opt out of humiliation instead of most kinks where you have to opt in.