“You'd be surprised how many scene folks want the same thing, both women and men. A couple of my friends have been talking about starting a dating site that is specifically for people who want kink in their life but not to the point that it defines the relationship. I was skeptical of what kind of people it would draw. But, when you look it at from the point of view that there are goofballs in every crowd, maybe it will work and even be a viable option for prodoms.”

I think a dating site like that is something that’s great in theory but my gut feeling is pessimistic about how it would be in reality. Sadly I think you would end up with too many guys just looking for free play or with unrealistic expectations. I have no experience in the scene except as a client. I would think the best way for a Pro Domme to find a dating relationship with a sub male would be with someone they meet as a client and get to know as friends first where there’s genuine mutual like and attraction.