One comment about being a switch. I became one without even knowing what the term meant. Really. I was in my mid 40s, and the Mistress was in her mid to late 20s, so the age factor may have played a part. I wanted to do a roleplay where she was kidnapped, I rescued her and took her to safety. I thought, we thought, her being tied up on a chair and gagged would add drama to the scene. It was a large, private play space. I tied her up, but I'm not a rope bondage guy by any means. The session started with me "breaking in" where she was held captive, untying her and literally carrying her off. By the middle of the session she took more and more control, tease and seduction, and I was in deep subspace at the end.

The young Mistress loved it. We did variations of it several times. Only time I was anywhere near dominant in a session. As I've learned, you never know where you may go in this scene.