I am having conversations with my domme about her whipping me.

I could use some advice. After 20 years of bdsm play i have never been whipped. She is newer and has never whipped someone. Its normally not my kink. But she is into it and id like to try it with her. My pain tolerance is pretty high.

I looked at the bdsm impact zone chart and i seems like the butt is a great area the lower back is a no go. Any other advice on where and where not to hit?

Any advice on what to use based on our experience. Im open to single tail, floggers, dragon tail, bull whips etc. i am probably looking for the easiest for her to control. Also want it to be somewhat painful without it totally destroying me.

Im also fine with some markings that take a while to heal. Id like to avoid skin being broken welts etc. Is this possible?

Finally, Is there a Good way for her to practice beforehand?