I've got only respect for the safety of women involved in this. But what is a first time client to do? Fortunately, I won't be a first time client much longer. The lady I have an appointment with didn't ask for a reference. Maybe because my girlfriend is coming with me? Maybe she has security at her place? I really don't know. If you don't mind my asking, Mistress Tissa, how do you handle a session request from someone who is brand spanking new?