Don't cross the streems. Love it. Puts me in the mood to watch the original Ghost Busters.

I completely agree in the case of a man dragging a vanilla woman to a session with him. Over the years, I've seen a few men try to turn their girlfriend or wife into a dom. Not only was it bad for their relationship but, in my opinion, selfish of the man. You are spot on with if an adult woman was kinky, she would have realized that, at least, by the time she was in college.

In my friend's case, his live in girlfriend is kinky. They play at home once in a while, but not often enough or deep enough to scratch his itch. She's insanely jealous...to the point that even if he was to sneak away for a session, somehow her radar would come on and, she'd know it. Perhaps a good suggestion would be for him to rent a high end play space for just the two of them. He'd get his playtime and the toys may inspire her to explore. She loves clothes. So, he could buy her a killer outfit and boots.