Agree. I realize my first line might not be clear. I was saying that if you did the same thing with a pro domme and a real-life partner (wife ,in OP's case), it'd be 10x hotter with your wife, due to the deep and organic connection. But in most cases, it's not "the same thing", since many things pro dommes do take skill. But for the things my (amateur) play partner CAN do? Much more meaningful